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What Happens If You Stay with a Man Who Cheated on You

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stay with a man who cheated on youWhat Happens If You Stay with a Man Who Cheated on You

The moment you read the title, you probably had a vision of a scene from a soap opera where a woman stayed with an unfaithful man. Despite being a romantic cliché, some people actually stay with their cheating partners even after admitting that they cheated. Can we blame the victims for staying, or should we condone the partners for cheating?

Soap operas aside, what really happens if you stay with a man who cheated on you?
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How to Leave a Marriage

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leave a marriageRoughly three weeks ago just before the holidays, I was about to call it a very long holiday season when a client entered my office with bloodshot eyes and a tan.

I sat her down on my couch and prepared her a cup of hot coffee. It took her awhile to get settled in and then she started out with an apology. She apologized for walking in without an appointment. I waved it off, saying it was no big deal. I then asked her what was wrong and her answer was very simple.

“I’m leaving my marriage.”

I thought of divorce or annulment at first, but she meant something else.

Leaving a marriage meant something else. So what does it mean?

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8 Things to Help You Find True Love

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find true loveTrue love is something we read about in fairy tales, or watch in movies. True love is something that evades us in more ways than one, or at least that is what most people like to believe.

People who are in relationships often break up because love never existed in the first place. But you know what makes love so mysterious?

It doesn’t just appear out of nowhere. You have to create it.

In countless counselling sessions, my clients rant about their frustrations for finding true love and among the numerous narrations, I’ve centered on 8 things that will allow them to create and find true love.

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How to Get Over Her

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how to get over herFor men, getting over an ex-girlfriend or ex-wife can become one of the great dilemmas of manhood. Getting over your ex is rarely quick and easy, and as such, often complicated by what you two held in common – from hangouts to living quarters.

The most frustrating thing about the whole process, however, is that even if you ended the relationship because it was the right thing to do, it can still be difficult to bury every memory and move on.

From my experience, there’s no “exact thing” to do when it comes to getting over her. It just depends on the kind of person that you are and how involved the people are in your life. If you want to move on to a more confident life of singlehood, you need to be emptied of  your emotional baggage from the previous relationship.

This means you need to know how to get over her, and I am going to make it easy for any man out there to get over their ex.

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How to Get Over Him

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how to get over himBreakups are tough, and I get that. No one can really prepare you for what’s about to happen the moment someone breaks up with you.

Even mainstream movies and TV shows don’t paint a pretty picture – a girl will wallow in tears, wearing her pyjamas and binge-watch all of Nicholas Sparks’ novels-turned movies while eating a tub of Ben and Jerry’s.

For women, it’s pretty difficult to get over an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband, though I’d like to say that women are emotionally more capable of getting over a breakup than men.

Regardless of what caused the split between you and your ex-boyfriend/ex-husband, it’s understandable to have some feelings of pain, guilt, anger, sadness, and loss mixed into one sad little bowl. You can even fall into a trap of obsession – of trying to reach out to him or worse, trying to get back to him.

No matter what happened between you two, it’s far more important to move on. Read on if you want to know how to get over him.
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The Five Stages of Grief after a Breakup

5 stages of grief after a breakup

5 stages of grief after a breakupLet’s face facts here. Breakups are devastating and heart-breaking. The more meaningful the relationship, the more painful its end. No matter what caused the breakup or how long the relationship lasted, whether you were the dumper or the dumpee, you will grieve the moment the relationship ends.

And you know what?

It’s perfectly fine to grieve.

When a relationship ends, it’s only natural for you, or anyone, to go through these 5 stages of grief after a breakup.

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What You Must Learn From A Partner Who Does Not Love You

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partner who does not love youLove can be complicated because it’s a two-way street. The reciprocity needs to exist. For one to love, he or she needs to be loved. After all, how can one give what one doesn’t receive? Unrequited love becomes a painful experience because it hinders us from receiving love despite giving our partner the love that they deserve.

When I listened to my friend talk about his experience, I found myself reflecting on a question:What’s to prevent me or anyone from falling into another trap that is unrequited love if I don’t have anything to take away from the previous experience? It hurts when we fall prey to unrequited love, and to be blunt about it, it sucks. However, it doesn’t mean that you can’t walk away from it without taking a few lessons with you.

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Why A Cheater Will Almost Always Cheat Again

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why a cheater will almost always cheat againIt’s pretty difficult to determine if your partner is cheating on you. There’s no science behind it, save for some predictable behavioural patterns associated with dishonesty.

Can you blame your partner for cheating on you? Of course you could, but it would be wrong to do so.

Is there a good reason why a cheater will almost always cheat again? You bet there is.

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